
The factor ‘devaluing’ includes both devaluation of others who do not provide admiration needs (‘sometimes I avoid people because I’m concerned that they’ll disappoint me’) and of the self, due to feelings of shameful dependency on others (‘when others disappoint me, I often get angry at myself’). The factor ‘contingent self-esteem’ (item example: ‘It’s hard for me to feel good about myself unless I know other people like me’) reflects a need to use others in order to maintain self-esteem. Pincus, Ansell developed the Pathological Narcissism Inventory (PNI) to capture this narcissistic vulnerability in three factors. Vulnerable narcissism, in marked contrast to the overt grandiose features listed in DSM-5 criteria, includes instances of depressed mood, insecurity, hypersensitivity, shame and identification with victimhood. Recognising the vulnerable dimension of narcissism has significant implications for treatment, including providing an accurate diagnosis and implementing appropriate technical interventions within treatment settings. The more encompassing term ‘pathological narcissism’ has been used to better reflect personality dysfunction that is fundamentally narcissistic but allows for both grandiose and vulnerable aspects in its presentation. Despite these features being important aspects of narcissism that have been validated through empirical research, they have been criticised for their emphasis on grandiosity and the exclusion of vulnerability in narcissism, a trend that is mirrored in the field more generally and runs counter to over 35 years of clinical theory.
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The current diagnostic description of narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) as it appears in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5, 5th edition, ) includes a lot of information about how the person affects others, such as requiring excessive admiration, having a sense of entitlement, interpersonal exploitativeness, showing both a lack of empathy for others and feeling others are envious of their perceived special powers or personality features. Living with a person with pathological narcissism can be marked by experiencing a person who shows large fluctuations in affect, oscillating attitudes and contradictory needs. These findings have clinical implications for diagnosis and treatment in that the initial spectrum of complaints may be misdiagnosed unless the complete picture is understood. On the findings reported here, the vulnerable aspect of pathological narcissism impacts others in an insidious way given the core deficits of feelings of emptiness and affective instability. These findings lend support to the importance of assessing the whole dimension of the narcissistic personality, as well as associated personality patterns. Instances of relatives childhood trauma, excessive religiosity and substance abuse were also described. Participants also described perfectionistic (anankastic), vengeful (antisocial) and suspicious (paranoid) features.

These grandiose and vulnerable characteristics were commonly reported together (69% of respondents). Participants also described ‘vulnerability’ of the relative: contingent self-esteem, hypersensitivity and insecurity, affective instability, emptiness, rage, devaluation, hiding the self and victimhood. Participants described ‘grandiosity’ in their relative: requiring admiration, showing arrogance, entitlement, envy, exploitativeness, grandiose fantasy, lack empathy, self-importance and interpersonal charm.

Verbatim responses were thematically analysed. Participants were asked to describe their relative and their interactions with them. We asked the relatives of people high in narcissistic traits (indexed by scoring above a cut-off on a narcissism screening measure) to describe their relationships ( N = 436 current romantic partners former romantic partners family members ). Individuals with pathological narcissism express many of their difficulties of identity and emotion regulation within the context of significant interpersonal relationships thus studying these impacts on others is warranted. Recent research has established some of the interpersonal impacts on others from being in a close relationship with someone having such traits of pathological narcissism, but no qualitative studies exist. Research into the personality trait of narcissism have advanced further understanding of the pathological concomitants of grandiosity, vulnerability and interpersonal antagonism.
